Are you sad, dad?
Posted by funky uncle mustard on 06 Nov 2006 at 09:43 pm | Tagged as: Being a Dad, DadMustard, Parenting
Time: late afternoon
Setting: my home office
Noah, age 6, enters. . .
Noah: Is it ok if I go over to [a neighbor friend’s] house to play?
Dad (flatly): Yeah, that would be fine.
Noah (stops, concerned): Are you sad? You sound kinda sad.
Dad: Not about you playing. It’s just my work today wasn’t very fun.
Noah (matter-of-factly): Sometimes school isn’t fun either. (Heads for the door)
Noah (shouting as he leaves): Love ya! Bye!
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I could write about how cool it was that Noah was concerned. I could write about how he tried to relate to my problems. I could write about how his tone about school was so perfect – as if he were saying, “yup, some days are better than others.†Or I could just leave it all alone and let the dialogue speak for itself without comment. That’s what I think I’ll do.
If you ever decide to auction your son to the highest bidder, just let me know in advance..